weddings


Flower Etiquette

Wedding Flowers - the Basics

Unsure of who,what, where and how many? We hope this guide will help make planning your flowers easy.

Bride
Nowadays,you can carry anything you like-from a shower arrangement of orchids to a single calla lily, or you can even sport a trailing wrist corsage. But to ensure your bouquet is extra-special, follow the three "Fs"-Focus, Filler and Foliage. The Focus is your main bloom such as a calla lilies, and roses and so on. The Filler will be the secondary blooms that harmonise with your main flower. The Foliage is the darker (often green, silver or brown) finishing touches that will bring the whole look together. You must also keep in mind your gown and figure because it is the total image the bouquet is being designed for and your bouquet is the finishing touch to your attire statement.

Groom
The groom can wear a lapel spray that looks like it has been taken from the bride's bouquet. The lapel spray helps the groom stand out from the ushers, especially if they are wearing the same tuxedos. The boutonniere is always worn on the left lapel.

Maid of Honour and Bridesmaids
Usually the bride's attendants carry a bouquet that's smaller in size and may or may not have the same flowers. It always gives a nice flow to the bridal party if some to the flowers are shared by both the Bride and her attendants. The styles of the bouquets again should compliment the outfits of the maid of honour and bridesmaids.

Flowergirls
They either carry a basket, small bouquet, a ball of flowers or a basket of rose petals.

Best Man and Ushers
The groom's men generally wear a single bloom, again a flower that is already being used in the bridal party for their boutonnieres.

Ring Bearers
His boutonniere will be the same as the bestman and ushers but a smaller version. He may also carry a pillow that could be decorated with a floral display to match the rest of the bridal party.

Mothers
The mothers of the bride and groom traditionally wear a corsage that either matches the couple's colour scheme or possibly the mothers' outfits. Often orchids are a lovely choice the the mothers.

Fathers
The fathers of the bride and groom traditionally wear boutonnieres that matches the colour scheme of the wedding.

Grandparents
You don't have to supply your grandparents with flowers, but it's a really nice touch to make sure there's a corsage or boutonniere for them to wear on the day.

Ceremony Arrangements
There are no hard and fast rules for this, but many couples have pedestal arrangements (normally more than one) of the mixed flowers and foliage, in the colours of the wedding, at the entrance and at the front of the ceremony venue-be it a church, synagogue or hotel venue. You can also have arrangements on every pew end or row of chairs, on columns or walls and on the windowsills.

Reception Arrangements
Many couples arrange for their ceremony pedestals and so on to be moved to their reception venue to save money. In addition, it's traditional to have table arrangements. These can vary from the more usual candle and flower oasis centerpiece's to floating gerberas in square vases or pots filled with seasonal fruit. The head table arrangements can either be long versions of the other centerpieces, which can stretch the length of the table, or two of three separate arrangements.

Cake
Many couples now choose to decorate their cake with flowers featured either in the bride's bouquet or in the table arrangements. These can be silk, real or sugar flowers.

Gifts
It's traditional to present the mothers of the bride and groom with a bouquet of flowers as a thank you for all their help and support planning the wedding.